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How do the stories we tell influence the coaching culture we get?

Negative stories can kill company culture while those that resonate help shape positive experiences
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In part one we looked at culture through the lens of Culture Partners’ model, the Results Pyramid.

We saw that culture can be defined as ‘Experiences shaping Beliefs which drive Actions and Results’ and how it follows that people’s daily experiences are ultimately what will determine whether we can create a coaching culture or not.

Those experiences are, it seems, created in one of three ways:

  • Our direct, personal encounters with other people and events
  • The systems and processes in which we participate
  • The stories we hear (experience by proxy)

Systems and processes

In their book Exploring Corporate Strategy, Gerry Johnson and Kevan Scholes present a model called the Cultural Web as a means of characterising and analysing organisation culture. The web consists of the following systems and processes:

  • Stories
  • Routines and Rituals
  • Organisational Structure
  • Control Systems
  • Power structures
  • Symbols

Stories, as we’ve seen, are a category of experience worthy of separate attention, and we’ll look at them specifically now.

We’ll pick up on the others in the remaining articles in the series.

The stories told in organisations tend to reflect the beliefs of those that work there and these beliefs may be quite different from the ones the senior leadership wish were the case. 

 

Telling the right tales

Think back to your early days at work. Remember your first few days or weeks getting accustomed to your new surroundings and being introduced to the people with whom you would now interact on a day-to-day basis. 

If your experience was typical, you would have been exposed to countless stories during this time. By stories, I mean the conversations you have with people who tell you what it’s like to work there. 

The conversations you hear in the bathroom about the problems the finance department is having with sales or the fact that the latest change initiative is doomed to failure because some have worked there long enough to remember the last time it was attempted. 

The stories told in organisations tend to reflect the beliefs of those that work there and these beliefs may be quite different from the ones the senior leadership wish were the case. 

Sharing success stories

In the case of a coaching culture the stories should be of success and, just as importantly, learning. They should reflect a belief that people’s potential will come through if they are given opportunities and choose to take advantage of them. 

Wouldn’t it be great if new recruits were told about the time that a training programme that was due to be shelved to save money was retained because employees felt so strongly about it?

There will be stories in circulation already, but if they’re negative or killing the culture you’re trying to create, they need to be replaced.

Changing the narrative

Let’s have people talking about how great managers are at getting results from people instead of moaning about the fearsome taskmasters they have to work for. How about more stories of high performers – already very good at what they do – seeking out coaching and highlighting its worth to others?

In the mid 2000s we did a large coaching skills training programme for a group of advisers from an organisation called Back Up North. The advisers worked with disadvantaged groups including ex-offenders and substance abusers in an effort to help them return to employment. No easy task and a challenging environment in which to apply coaching. 

Coaching as a life skill

We had originally trained the senior management team in coaching as a management skill but were then asked to roll the training out to the advisers as it was seen to have huge potential benefits. 

We followed up with the adviser participants some months after the training and were delighted with the stories they were now telling. 

One adviser, for example, told us of a client who suffered from severe dyslexia for many years. The adviser began coaching the client following the training and the client was now visiting a centre once a week for help. 

Meaningful impacts

Whilst this may not seem like a huge achievement by some standards, it represented the first ever meaningful action for this particular client.

There was also the adviser who had found many coaching applications outside of work, helping her husband with problems at work, supporting her bereaved mother and helping her daughter move house.

We understand that these stories are still told and the usefulness of coaching still highlighted despite the time that has elapsed since the training.

Create the culture you need

As we’ve seen, there will be stories in circulation already, but if they’re negative or killing the culture you’re trying to create, they need to be replaced with ones that are more resonant.

Try encouraging senior leaders (for it is they who set the tone for these things) to add stories to the communications they handle anyway, e.g:

  • Team meetings
  • Town halls
  • Video messages
  • Performance reviews
  • Quarterly updates

An effective framework

Here’s a framework that works well:

  • Introduce the cultural value you want to highlight
  • Tell the story briefly (keep it to less than a minute)
  • Reinforce the value it supports

Something like this…

“Here’s what taking advantage of learning opportunities looks like to me. Sally, in sales, has exceeded her numbers for five months in a row but still came to the lunch and learn we had with that well-known sales guru. She said that she’d learnt a couple of great tips that would help her identify more people involved in the client’s decision-making process and stop deals getting stuck. That’s what taking advantage of learning opportunities looks like to me.”

If you enjoyed this, read: Coaching: The 'common sense' approach to framing your thinking

 

One Response

  1. If you’ve ever been in a
    If you’ve ever been in a coaching relationship, you know there are many benefits to being a part of the process. The personal benefits of coaching are vast and can positively impact a person’s career if they are truly committed to their coach. This process can help individuals develop in a wide range of needs and can even benefit them on a personal level.

    I Love your post ! inspired me thanks for sharing
    Isabella Di Fabio – Tokyo Japan

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